The first few dates can be great but if you put it on hold for too long till the next, you start to forget how great the last date was. Of course these matters are subjective and so we’ve asked our guy panel. However, I feel if something is amazing, a lack of momentum is never an issue. The early stages are so critical and it doesn’t seem to take much to lose traction.
Because you’re not at the stage of being an integrated part of each other’s lives, you can easily slip back in to that mode of not being with each other again.
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Because where there isn’t momentum, the plane goes nowhere as it does in relationships.
When you get to dating in your 30s, priorities shift.
Work is more demanding, it’s likely you’ve taken up some personal hobbies and have invested quite some time attending hens nights, weddings and babysitting your friends’ kids.
But we will almost certainly tell how we felt about the date through non-verbal cues, which will eventually reveal the magical post-date-call timetable you seek. If those answers leave you unsure, she’s probably unsure too. Wait a couple days (not ) or so to really reach out again.
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